Stop Saying ‘Happy Birthday’
Generic birthday wishes miss the point—let's do better.
We’ve all sent the “Happy Birthday!” message in the office chat. Quick. Polite. Forgettable.
Last year, I tried something different—and it meant a lot more. My latest Article in Psychology Today explores going being wishing someone “happy birthday” to something more meaningful…!
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Key points
Birthdays are built-in chances to make someone feel truly seen. Let’s not waste them.
A generic “happy birthday” is easy—but often forgettable. What people remember is real appreciation.
Ask yourself: What do I genuinely appreciate about this person? And actually tell them.